Monday, January 5, 2015

A Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Every three years, we stay home and celebrate the holidays in Texas.  It let's us take some of the stress out of the season by not having to travel with the kiddos and it's so nice every so often to see the kids faces light up as they open the gifts under our own tree.  We are also extremely fortunate that our family has been willing to come to us during these stay at home years, so that we can still enjoy being with our loved ones over the holidays.  This year, Mimi and Pop-Pop came down for Christmas and Mamaw and Papaw came to ring in the New Year!

As part of our gifts to the family this year, we got new family pictures taken (so that Little Sister could be included!).  Unfortunately, Little Sister was not the most cooperative with her pictures (or with Santa for that matter), but we did get some good shots, especially once the play piano was brought out.  

     

     


These pictures demonstrate what kind of mood Little Sister was in to start the session...thank God for the magic piano of smiles!





First, Big Brother did his best Schroeder impression from Charlie Brown...



...which got Sister interested...




...which then upset Brother because he was not keen on sharing...



     

     

     

...but we convinced him to give Sister a turn and ended up getting some good shots...



     


...so then we all snuck around her!  Bam, family picture accomplished!


The rest of Mimi and Pop-Pop's visit went well.  We had a Santa playdate at a friend's house, did some projects with Pop-Pop, enjoyed a Christmas Eve Santa visited, opened presents, and got to visit with Uncle C and A on Christmas Day.  

     

Santa stopped by Ms. J and Mr. C's house.  Sister, again, was not a fan.  Her angry tears kept distracting brother too!


      

      

Putting together and testing some of the toys their Great-Grand Pap had made a long time ago.



     

     

Santa made his annual Christmas Eve stop...Brother was excited, but Sister was content to watch from Pop-Pop's arms at a safe distance.



Sister was ok with leaving out the cookies, milk, and carrots...



     

...and she was certainly ok with opening presents with Brother the next morning!  Merry Christmas!


After Mimi and Pop-Pop left, we got to have second Christmas with Mamaw and Papaw, along with more family pictures!
     


Second Christmas!  The kids (and Papaw) were enjoying the presents (and tormenting the dog with the new remote control car).


Family pictures went a bit better this time around.  Sister smiled, but Brother burned out early.  Still made some great memories, though!




     

     



 This last shot is a perfect "Brother, stop, you're embarrassing me!" moment.


Unfortunately, our visit was marred by Mamaw and Papaw coming down with the flu.  They had to be put in quarantine for a few days, but finally were on the road to recovery when they had to leave.  Little Buddy and Little Sweetie were very worried about them, but we convinced them that "rest is best" and that they could best help by picking out Gatorade flavors to help Mamaw and Papaw's tummies.  Because they were sick over New Year's, we toasted together a few days late.



      

 Cheers!  Happy New Year!



Another important event closed out our year; Little Buddy and Little Sweetie are getting a god-cousin!  Aunt S and Uncle M asked Daddy and I to be godparents to Baby L.  We are so blessed to have this adorable little man as our godson! 

     

Our sweet godson!


So we leave 2014 one godson richer, one ASD diagnosis wiser, and all our bonds of family strengthened.  We came into our own as a family of four and adapted to the challenge that our family might be a bit different than we imagined, but that being different is ok.  We still have plenty of room to grow and mature and look forward to the lessons that 2015 will bring to us!

Wishing you a wonderful new year, 

LSM

Little Sweetie's Momma

Friday, December 19, 2014

December 19

Happy December and happy fourteen months to our Little Sweetie!  Lots of fun things this month as we head into Christmas!

We put our tree and decorations up during Thanksgiving weekend, so it's been Christmasy around the house for awhile.  One of the first items that makes an appearance is "Pat", our elf on the shelf.  Now Pat doesn't do anything too crazy (because, honestly, Momma and Daddy are pretty lazy), but he does hide somewhere new every morning and Big Brother always has fun trying to find him (although this year Pat also began the tradition of bringing us a wrapped Christmas book each night--what I great way to make sure we actually read all of our Christmas books!).  We couldn't have been prepared for how quickly Little Sweetie caught on to the game and how much she would enjoy find Pat and looking for the book present each night!


 

Pat hanging out with his friends in the Nativity


While Little Sweetie did enjoy Pat, she wasn't too keen on that other jolly person in a red hat associated with the holiday.  We've got lots of "Santa is NOT my best friend" pictures, including this one from the Anadarko Kids' Christmas Party. 



Get.  Me.  Out.  Of.  Here.


Overall, though, she seemed to really enjoy the start of the season and was more into it than we were expecting, which made it more fun for the whole family.

 

Christmas coloring at the Kids' Party with brother.


     

 

Helping Daddy put up Christmas lights.



 Decorating her felt tree.  Her and brother were actually great this year about leaving the family Christmas tree alone.


     


Stories with Santa at a friends' Christmas party.  Santa was ok...from a distance, while seated in Daddy's lap.



Enjoying trying on her new Christmas dress!


Mommy and Daddy also wanted to get into the holiday spirit, so we got tickets to the Radio City Rockettes.  We did have a sitter cancel on us, but Aunt S, Uncle M, and Baby L saved the day by being our backups. Little Sweetie and Big Brother had great fun with them!
 
 

What's this?  Daddy and Momma headed out on a date?  It's a Christmas miracle!




Please go.  This is my special time with Aunt S, not yours. 





Chilling with Baby L.





Brother's computer?  Ha!  Possession is 9/10s of the law!  It's mine now!



We've also had a bit of a schedule transition this month.  As you know, Little Sweetie and Big Brother are great friends and love to do things together (and yell "cheese truck" to each other, because it's the best joke ever, obviously).




    

Best buddies!


But brother was accepted into our school district's early childhood development program and started school on December 1.  He starts his mornings at home with either occupational or speech therapy (sometimes both) and then the bus picks him up for his school day.  This means that sister and I are pretty homebound right now.  We play together in the morning while brother has his therapy and then take a walk once he leaves for school, which allows her to take a short late morning nap.  Then lunch, some more play, and afternoon nap.  She's often asleep when brother gets home, but if she's not, she waits and watches for him to arrive on the bus.




Come home, big brother!


Once or twice a week we try to run errands and each lunch with either Daddy or Aunt S.  Sometimes Aunt S even comes over and we trade baby watching so that we can get a few solo runs in.  But it has been getting a little rough being stuck home all day, so we are looking forward to January, when Little Sweetie will start doing her own My Gym class on Wednesday!  She can't wait!

Height and Weight 
Added just a bit of weight (which is crazy considering how much she eats) and is now 23 lbs. and 30 inches.

Personality
Super sweet and smiley as always...until she doesn't get her way.  The drama has started!  Really started.  For example:  


After being told that she wasn't allowed to double-dip a chip.


    
Upon realizing that I was holding Baby L and couldn't feed her until Aunt S came back from her run.  Life is so hard!



Not wanting to take a nap.  Oh the many faces of Little Sweetie!


Developmental Milestones
Let's see...so much going on!  She walks like a pro and has finally mastered coming down the stairs on her own (this seemed to take a bit longer since she seemed to think she should learn to walk down them like her big brother...she finally decided climbing down may be the best strategy for right now).  She's a great eater (although the opposite foods of brother.  Where he liked breads, she likes meats.  Lots of meat.  She's a very committed carnivore.  Well, a carnivore whom loves berries too!).  She's also been doing great on her sign language and seems to like communicating with us for "more," "help,", "water," and such.  And, my non-climbing baby who had lulled me into calmness has now decided that she's a proud climbing baby.  She likes to go up on the fireplace, but so far is too short to really handle the couch yet.



Proud girl!


She's also doing really great using utensils to eat.  Some days she refuses to eat until she gets her fork!


"I'm a baby, momma, not a barbarian."


Fun Tidbits
It's been really great watching her learn to "play" this month.  Her favorite toys include matchbox cars, dolls, doing stickers, riding the rocking horse, and finding inventive uses for her brother's underwear.  It's so fun to watch her grow and be creative!




Good little mommy, feeding her doll and putting her (and herself) to sleep on our walk! 




Yee haw, cowgirl!



          

           

Yes, these are my brother's (clean) underwear and yes, they make great hats! 

And we are really looking forward to the end of this month...Mimi and Pop-Pop and coming for Christmas followed by Mamaw and Papaw coming for New Year's!  It's going to be lots of fun for Little Sweetie and Big Brother.  Let the spoiling commence!

Have a great night, 

LSM

Little Sweetie's Momma